It’s not the depth of intimacy in conversations that matters.
It doesn’t even matter whether you agree or disagree.
The important thing is how you pay attention to each other, no matter what you’re talking about or doing.
So listen to your partner. And put your phone down when they want to chat.
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The Relationship Minute From The Gottman Institute, dated 12 February 2019. You can sign up here to get it delivered to your inbox every Tuesday and Thursday morning.
