You can’t control your partner’s actions, but you can control your own.

Focus on the things that are within your power.

Here is short list of some of the things that are withing your power when it comes to your relationship:

• Your Attitude
• Your Thoughts
• How kind you are
• How well you listen
• How honest you are
• How often you say “thank you”
• Who you spend your time with
• How you express your feelings
• The amount of effort you put forth
• How much time you spend worrying
• Whether or not you try again after a setback